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Where should this month's pay go?

Split your take-home pay into needs, wants and savings, then compare it with what you really spend. Start from 50/30/20, or set your own.

50/30/20 is a popular starting point: half of take-home pay for needs, 30% for wants, 20% for savings and extra debt payments. For a lot of households in their 40s, it doesn't fit. Housing costs more than it used to, there may be a parent to help, and "wants" can include things that feel very much like needs, such as the only holiday you take all year.

So this calculator lets you change the percentages. It's more useful to see your real split, and decide whether you're happy with it, than to chase someone else's formula.

Your month

Housing, bills, food, transport, care, minimum debt payments.
Not financial advice. No guaranteed returns. This tool gives a rough illustration based only on the numbers you type. It is educational, not financial, investment, tax, legal or insurance advice. Rules and prices differ by country and change over time; check official sources (e.g. IRS, GOV.UK, HMRC) or a qualified, licensed professional before making decisions.

Needs or wants? The awkward middle

Some spending sits in between: a cleaner because you work long hours, help for a parent, the gym that keeps you sane. There's no rule. Put each item where it honestly belongs for you, and be consistent from month to month, so you can see whether things are moving in the right direction.

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Questions people ask

Is 50/30/20 a rule I should follow?

It's a common rule of thumb, not a requirement. Many people adjust it to their housing costs, family situation and goals.

Where do debt payments go?

Minimum payments are usually counted as needs. Anything above the minimum can go in savings & extra debt payments.

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